Love – What are your feelings about it?
Mark as either TRUE or FALSE (based on your opinions of love and a relationship with someone you either like now or what you think would be an ideal relationship) on a separate piece of paper- I don’t know how to format this to add up answers- sorry
BTW, “they” refers to the person you like (or hope to like in the future, whatever the case may be)
1. Love at first sight is real
2. It takes a long time to really fall in love
3. If they are rude you have the right to be upset at them
4. Maturity is a good thing
5. It’s better/easier/you should be friends first and then fall in love – friendship comes before love
6. It’s a good idea to keep them guessing about your true feelings
7. You can still be friends after you break up
8. It’s better to graduate HS before falling in love
9. You should act like you’re depressed or needy sometimes to test how they will deal with it
10. If you’re really in love, it’s hard to sleep for thinking about them or you think about them constantly during the day
11. You can like someone even if they embarrass you
12. You should try to understand their side- thoughts, feelings, etc
13. Nothing matters as long as they care about you
14. It’s better if they don’t know everything about you
15. It’s best to love someone with a similar background (religion, culture, etc)
16. You don’t need to be physical to enjoy spending time with them
17. If they ignore you, you should be suspicious or offended
18. If they’re down, you should cheer them up even if you’re not feeling that great- it’s a bad idea to have pity parties with them or complain too much
19. You should always look your best when you’re with them
20. The best love comes after a long friendship
21. If you really like someone, it’s hard to concentrate on anything else
22. You can tell someone likes you by the way they look at you
23. If you broke up with someone, you would worry about their feelings
24. You trust them enough to not worry about where they are or what they’re doing
25. You need to be careful if you like more than one person
26. After a breakup you should wonder/worry/think about them constantly
27. You should be concerned about whether or not they’d be a good parent
28. The best reasons for marriage are companionship and children
29. You should be willing to sacrifice a little for them and they for you
30. You should never kiss on the first date
31. You enjoy flirting
32. They would be disappointed in your past actions
33. You have a good idea of what true love is
34. Adoption is a good idea if you can’t have kids
35. You should fall in love with a friend
36. You should never date someone you wouldn’t be willing to marry
37. You can’t help feeling jealous when you see them with a member of the opposite sex
38. If they want to do something you don’t (career, hobbies), you should get out of their way and let them do it if it’s not anything bad or inappropriate
39. You should wear the same type of clothes or accessories that they do (gender appropriate)
40. It’s a good idea to not go steady before a mission (guys) or college (girls)
41. You enjoy single dates as much as group dates
42. You should let them use your things if they need to
43. When you’re around them you feel swept off your feet
44. It can be fun to go out with someone who is just a friend
45. You should choose a spouse based on your career
46. The longest relationships are the most memorable
47. You should always watch how they behave around past bf/gfs or others they’ve dated
48. After dating long enough, they should be able to predict how you will react to things
49. They have the right to be able to mention other dates to you (especially if you ask them about it) without you being offended in any way
50. The person you like has the right to be able to talk to you about stuff and expect you to at least try to have an open mind
51. True love is truthful, even if sometimes the truth hurts or you don’t want to accept their criticism (since they like you, it is intended as helpful or explanatory- try to realize that)
52. Everyone is human and does stupid things, including you. You should be able to accept the fact that some subjects that must be talked about are hard to tactfully say, but if they are not good at saying things tactfully, you should try to understand what they were trying to say and realize that even though they may not be good at using tact, they still tried, and you should give them credit for trying. You should also try to realize that they did try to be tactful/truthful in the kindest way possible, even if they lose their patience because you misinterpreted what they meant and got offended.
Circle the numbers you marked as TRUE (some appear more than once)
R 1, 16, 19, 22, 33, 39, 41, 43, 46
F 2, 5, 20, 28, 30, 33, 34, 35, 46
P 6, 7, 13, 14, 24, 26, 32, 37, 44
S 4, 8, 15, 27, 30, 34, 36, 40, 45, 49, 50
A 11, 12, 18, 23, 29, 34, 38, 42, 46, 49, 50, 51, 52
G 3, 9, 10, 17, 21, 24, 25, 31, 44
E 3, 9, 17, 27, 37, 47, 48, if you marked these false: 50, 51, 52
Add up how many you have in each row. Based on this quiz, your idea of love is the one with the most answers marked TRUE.
Your idea of love is more:
Romantic Tingles, swept off feet
Friendship Calm, relaxed, fun
Possessive Clingy, jealous, insecure, overly careful/restrictive
Sensible Good for each other, well-matched
Altruistic Willing to do things for them, helpful
Game-playing In for the chase, not the capture, immature
Expectant You expect too much from them and have jealousy issues