(Disclaimer: I have no idea where this came from and why it was on my computer.)
SLOW DANCE
Have you ever
watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to
the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a
butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading
night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so
fast.
Time is short.
The music won't
last.
Do you run through each day
On the
fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the
reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your
bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through
your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so
fast.
Time is short.
The music won't
last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it
tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see
his
sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good
friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call
and say,"Hi"
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance
so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't
last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You
miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry
through your day,
It is like an unopened
gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a
race.
Do take it slower
Hear the
music
Before the song is over.
Saturday, January 5, 2008
Sweet Santa cancer story
A Great Christmas Story To Warm Your Heart
I hope and pray as the CHRISTMAS season begins this year that you all will focus on charitable selfless acts and remember to give thanks to our Father above for all He has given to each of us.
Always believe in MIRACLES!! Three years ago, a little boy and his grandmother came to see Santa at Mayfair Mall in Wisconsin . The child climbed up on his lap, holding a picture of a little girl.
"Who is this?" asked Santa, smiling. "Your friend? Your sister?"
"Yes, Santa," he replied. "My sister, Sarah, who is very sick," he said sadly.
Santa glanced over at the grandmother who was waiting nearby, and saw her dabbing her eyes with a tissue.
"She wanted to come with me to see you, oh, so very much, Santa!"
the child exclaimed. "She misses you," he added softly.
Santa tried to be cheerful and encouraged a smile to the boy's face, asking him what he wanted Santa to bring him for Christmas.
When they finished their visit, the Grandmother came over to help the child off his lap, and started to say something to Santa, but halted.
"What is it?" Santa asked warmly.
"Well, I know it's really too much to ask you, Santa, but ." the old woman began, shooing her grandson over to one of Santa's elves to collect the little gift which Santa gave all his young visitors. "The girl in the photograph.. . my granddaughter well, you see ... she has leukemia and isn't expected to make it even through the holidays," she said through tear-filled eyes. "Is there any way, Santa . any possible way that you could come see Sarah? That's all she's asked for, for Christmas, is to see Santa."
Santa blinked and swallowed hard and told the woman to leave information with his elves as to where Sarah was, and he would see what he could do Santa thought of little else the rest of that afternoon. He knew what he had to do. "What if it were MY child lying in that hospital bed, dying," he thought with a sinking heart, "this is the least I can do."
When Santa finished visiting with all the boys and girls that evening, he retrieved from his helper the name of the hospital where Sarah was staying. He asked the assistant location manager how to get to Children's Hospital.
"Why?" Rick asked, with a puzzled look on his face.
Santa relayed to him the conversation with Sarah's grandmother earlier that day. "C'mon.... I'll take you there," Rick said softly.
Rick drove them to the hospital and came inside with Santa. They found out which room Sarah was in. A pale Rick said he would wait out in the hall.
Santa quietly peeked into the room through the half-closed door and saw little Sarah on the bed. The room was full of what appeared to be her family; there was the Grandmother and the girl's brother he had met earlier that day. A woman whom he guessed was Sarah's mother stood by the bed, gently pushing Sarah's thin hair off her forehead. And another woman who he discovered later was Sarah's aunt, sat in a chair near the bed with weary, sad look on her face. They were talking quietly, and Santa could sense the warmth and closeness of the family, and their love and concern for Sarah. Taking a deep breat h, and forcing a smile on his face, Santa entered the room, bellowing a hearty, "Ho, ho, ho!"
"Santa!" shrieked little Sarah weakly, as she tried to escape her bed to run to him, IVtubes in tact. Santa rushed to her side and gave her a warm hug. A child the tender age of his own son -- 9 years old -- gazed up at him with wonder and excitement. Her skin was pale and her short tresses bore telltale bald patches from the effects of chemotherapy. But all he saw when he looked at her was a pair of huge, blue eyes. His heart melted, and he had to force himself to choke back tears. Though his eyes were riveted upon Sarah's face, he could hear the gasps and quiet sobbing of the women in the room
As he and Sarah began talking, the family crept quietly to the bedside one by one, squeezing Santa's shoulder or his hand gratefully, whispering "thank you" as they gazed sincerely at him with shining eyes. Santa and Sarah talked and talked, and she told him excitedly all the toys she wanted for Christmas, assuring him she'd been a very good girl that year As their time together dwindled, Santa felt led in his spirit to pray for Sarah, and asked for permission from the girl's mother. She nodded in agreement and the entire family circled around Sarah's bed, holding hands. Santa looked intensely at Sarah and as ked her if she believed in angels.
"Oh, yes, Santa... I do!" she exclaimed.
"Well, I'm going to ask that angels watch over you, "he said.
Laying one hand on the child's head, Santa closed his eyes and prayed. He asked that God touch little Sarah, and heal her body from this disease. He asked that angels minister to her, watch and keep her. And when he finished praying, still with eyes closed, he started singing softly, "Silent Night, Holy Night.... a ll is calm, all is bright." The family joined in , s till holding hands, smiling at Sarah, and crying tears of hope, tears of joy for this moment, as Sarah beamed at them all& ; ; ;nbs p; When the song ended, Santa sat on the side of the bed again and held Sarah's frail, small hands in his own.
"Now, Sarah, "he said authoritatively, "you have a job to do, and that is to concentrate on getting well. I want you to have fun playing with your friends this summer, and I expect to see you at my house at Mayfair Mall this time next year!" He knew it was risky proclaiming that, to this little girl who had terminal cancer, but he "had" to. He had to give her the greatest gift he could -- not dolls or games or toys -- but the gift of HOPE.
"Yes, Santa! "Sarah exclaimed, her eyes bright.
He leaned down and kissed her on the forehead and left the room.
Out in the hall, the minute Santa's eyes met Rick's, a look passed between them and they wept unashamed. Sarah's mother and grandmother slipped out of the room quicklyand rushed to Santa's side to thank him.
"My only child is the same age as Sarah," he explained quietly.
"This is the least I could do." They nodded with understanding and hugged him.
One year later, Santa Mark was again back on the set in Milwaukee for his six-week, seasonal job which he so loves to do. Several weeks went by and then one day a child came up to sit on his lap.
"Hi, Santa! Remember me?!"
"Of course, I do," Santa proclaimed (as he always does), smiling down at her.
After all, the secret to being a "good" Santa is to always make each child feel as if they are the "only" child in the world at that moment.
"You came to see me in the hospital last year!" Santa's jaw dropped.
Tears immediately sprang in his eyes, and he grabbed this little miracle and held her to his chest. "Sarah!" he exclaimed. He scarcely recognized her,for her hair was long and silky and her cheeks were rosy -- much different from the little girl he had visited just a year before. He looked over and saw Sarah's mother and grandmother in the sidelines smiling and waving and wiping their eyes.
That was the best Christmas ever for Santa Claus. He had witnessed
--and been blessed to be instrumental in bringing about -- this miracle of hope.
This precious little child was healed. Cancer-free. Alive and well. He silently looked up to Heaven and humbly whispered, "Thank you, Father. 'Tis a very, Merry Christmas!
I hope and pray as the CHRISTMAS season begins this year that you all will focus on charitable selfless acts and remember to give thanks to our Father above for all He has given to each of us.
Always believe in MIRACLES!! Three years ago, a little boy and his grandmother came to see Santa at Mayfair Mall in Wisconsin . The child climbed up on his lap, holding a picture of a little girl.
"Who is this?" asked Santa, smiling. "Your friend? Your sister?"
"Yes, Santa," he replied. "My sister, Sarah, who is very sick," he said sadly.
Santa glanced over at the grandmother who was waiting nearby, and saw her dabbing her eyes with a tissue.
"She wanted to come with me to see you, oh, so very much, Santa!"
the child exclaimed. "She misses you," he added softly.
Santa tried to be cheerful and encouraged a smile to the boy's face, asking him what he wanted Santa to bring him for Christmas.
When they finished their visit, the Grandmother came over to help the child off his lap, and started to say something to Santa, but halted.
"What is it?" Santa asked warmly.
"Well, I know it's really too much to ask you, Santa, but ." the old woman began, shooing her grandson over to one of Santa's elves to collect the little gift which Santa gave all his young visitors. "The girl in the photograph.. . my granddaughter well, you see ... she has leukemia and isn't expected to make it even through the holidays," she said through tear-filled eyes. "Is there any way, Santa . any possible way that you could come see Sarah? That's all she's asked for, for Christmas, is to see Santa."
Santa blinked and swallowed hard and told the woman to leave information with his elves as to where Sarah was, and he would see what he could do Santa thought of little else the rest of that afternoon. He knew what he had to do. "What if it were MY child lying in that hospital bed, dying," he thought with a sinking heart, "this is the least I can do."
When Santa finished visiting with all the boys and girls that evening, he retrieved from his helper the name of the hospital where Sarah was staying. He asked the assistant location manager how to get to Children's Hospital.
"Why?" Rick asked, with a puzzled look on his face.
Santa relayed to him the conversation with Sarah's grandmother earlier that day. "C'mon.... I'll take you there," Rick said softly.
Rick drove them to the hospital and came inside with Santa. They found out which room Sarah was in. A pale Rick said he would wait out in the hall.
Santa quietly peeked into the room through the half-closed door and saw little Sarah on the bed. The room was full of what appeared to be her family; there was the Grandmother and the girl's brother he had met earlier that day. A woman whom he guessed was Sarah's mother stood by the bed, gently pushing Sarah's thin hair off her forehead. And another woman who he discovered later was Sarah's aunt, sat in a chair near the bed with weary, sad look on her face. They were talking quietly, and Santa could sense the warmth and closeness of the family, and their love and concern for Sarah. Taking a deep breat h, and forcing a smile on his face, Santa entered the room, bellowing a hearty, "Ho, ho, ho!"
"Santa!" shrieked little Sarah weakly, as she tried to escape her bed to run to him, IVtubes in tact. Santa rushed to her side and gave her a warm hug. A child the tender age of his own son -- 9 years old -- gazed up at him with wonder and excitement. Her skin was pale and her short tresses bore telltale bald patches from the effects of chemotherapy. But all he saw when he looked at her was a pair of huge, blue eyes. His heart melted, and he had to force himself to choke back tears. Though his eyes were riveted upon Sarah's face, he could hear the gasps and quiet sobbing of the women in the room
As he and Sarah began talking, the family crept quietly to the bedside one by one, squeezing Santa's shoulder or his hand gratefully, whispering "thank you" as they gazed sincerely at him with shining eyes. Santa and Sarah talked and talked, and she told him excitedly all the toys she wanted for Christmas, assuring him she'd been a very good girl that year As their time together dwindled, Santa felt led in his spirit to pray for Sarah, and asked for permission from the girl's mother. She nodded in agreement and the entire family circled around Sarah's bed, holding hands. Santa looked intensely at Sarah and as ked her if she believed in angels.
"Oh, yes, Santa... I do!" she exclaimed.
"Well, I'm going to ask that angels watch over you, "he said.
Laying one hand on the child's head, Santa closed his eyes and prayed. He asked that God touch little Sarah, and heal her body from this disease. He asked that angels minister to her, watch and keep her. And when he finished praying, still with eyes closed, he started singing softly, "Silent Night, Holy Night.... a ll is calm, all is bright." The family joined in , s till holding hands, smiling at Sarah, and crying tears of hope, tears of joy for this moment, as Sarah beamed at them all& ; ; ;nbs p; When the song ended, Santa sat on the side of the bed again and held Sarah's frail, small hands in his own.
"Now, Sarah, "he said authoritatively, "you have a job to do, and that is to concentrate on getting well. I want you to have fun playing with your friends this summer, and I expect to see you at my house at Mayfair Mall this time next year!" He knew it was risky proclaiming that, to this little girl who had terminal cancer, but he "had" to. He had to give her the greatest gift he could -- not dolls or games or toys -- but the gift of HOPE.
"Yes, Santa! "Sarah exclaimed, her eyes bright.
He leaned down and kissed her on the forehead and left the room.
Out in the hall, the minute Santa's eyes met Rick's, a look passed between them and they wept unashamed. Sarah's mother and grandmother slipped out of the room quicklyand rushed to Santa's side to thank him.
"My only child is the same age as Sarah," he explained quietly.
"This is the least I could do." They nodded with understanding and hugged him.
One year later, Santa Mark was again back on the set in Milwaukee for his six-week, seasonal job which he so loves to do. Several weeks went by and then one day a child came up to sit on his lap.
"Hi, Santa! Remember me?!"
"Of course, I do," Santa proclaimed (as he always does), smiling down at her.
After all, the secret to being a "good" Santa is to always make each child feel as if they are the "only" child in the world at that moment.
"You came to see me in the hospital last year!" Santa's jaw dropped.
Tears immediately sprang in his eyes, and he grabbed this little miracle and held her to his chest. "Sarah!" he exclaimed. He scarcely recognized her,for her hair was long and silky and her cheeks were rosy -- much different from the little girl he had visited just a year before. He looked over and saw Sarah's mother and grandmother in the sidelines smiling and waving and wiping their eyes.
That was the best Christmas ever for Santa Claus. He had witnessed
--and been blessed to be instrumental in bringing about -- this miracle of hope.
This precious little child was healed. Cancer-free. Alive and well. He silently looked up to Heaven and humbly whispered, "Thank you, Father. 'Tis a very, Merry Christmas!
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Bike accident
Previously published as a Facebook note.
So here's the story: It was 9:25 and class started in 5 minutes and I was in a hurry to get to class, so I got my bike. I didn't have pants with pockets, so I put my bike lock on the cables in front of the handlebars instead, and forgot to hold it in my hand once I started going- I rode down the hill about 100 ft away from my apt like 11 mph and when I rode over the gutter at the bottom (hill is about 100 ft) the lock flew off, got caught on the cable I lock my bike up with, and got stuck in the front tire. So the front tire stopped moving and the rest of me and the bike kept going. I landed with the bike on top of me and it hurt too bad to move it- luckily a guy and girl were there to help me bc I was too lightheaded to make it home. I kinda just laid there on the road and they got my bike off me and took my backpack. Easton even came to check on me 2 hours later- so nice of him. I'm going to make him something later as a thank you. Same with Abby- she came over around 4 with treats. If you guys somehow find me on Facebook- THANK YOU!!!
I hit my head and scraped above my L eyebrow and I have a 3" scrape above my L knee and a 1" sq one above/on my R knee, and I scraped up the palm of my R hand- 2 cut/scrapes, and there's 4 bike tire marks on the top of my L hand . There's also a little bruise on my shoulder but I can't feel it- just see it. Well, it's sore, not bruise-feeling. The cut on my head is a little swollen. I was so lightheaded going home- it would normally take a minute to walk back up the hill, park my bike, and walk up the 3 flights of stairs to my apt, but it took 20 minutes. I had to stop like 4 or 5 times bc I was going to pass out. When I was lightheaded my L peripheral vision was gone- that scared me. But Easton checked my eyes and I didn't have a concussion.
Once I got home I just laid on the couch for a while until I wasn't lightheaded anymore and then I went into my room and changed so that I could tend to my wounds better- I put a skirt on.
Needless to say I didn't go to MFHD- the class I was late for.
I'm much better now after a nap at about 12:30ish for an hour and a half and two Ibuprofens.
What made me mad tho is I had so much to do today- I had two tests, and now one of them is late. Hopefully I can get an extension because I was out of commission for half the day.
bandaged road-rash hand and head wound
head and shoulder wounds
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Date Word Dictionary
The Date-Word Dictionary
by Angela B, first edition
by Angela B, first edition
Ambiguous: Open to interpretation; having hidden/double meaning(s); of doubtful purport
Connotation: Something implied or suggested; connection
Connote: Denote secondarily
Coquette: A flirt
Coy: Flirtatiously shy, modest, demure, bashful
Crush: A temporary infatuation; the object of such an infatuation
Cryptic: Having hidden meaning; mysterious; secretive; occult; having unknown connotations
Date: A planned get-together with a member of the opposite sex
Denote: Point out and identify; designate; indicate; be a sign or symptom of
Flirt: Play at being interested or in love, not seriously
Flirtatious: Given to flirting
Hanging Out: An unplanned (or slightly planned, subject to change) get-together with a random bunch of friends, both male and female
Hint: To indirectly pass a message, particularly by means of gestures, glances, word choice, actions, or the pointed ignorance of the thing you’re trying to get across
Infatuation: A foolish passion, especially of love; obsessive, unreasonable/unreasoning love
Love: Affection for another person, especially of the opposite sex; any strong liking or affection; to have love/affection for
Occult: Beyond ordinary understanding; secret; known only to the initiated
Connotation: Something implied or suggested; connection
Connote: Denote secondarily
Coquette: A flirt
Coy: Flirtatiously shy, modest, demure, bashful
Crush: A temporary infatuation; the object of such an infatuation
Cryptic: Having hidden meaning; mysterious; secretive; occult; having unknown connotations
Date: A planned get-together with a member of the opposite sex
Denote: Point out and identify; designate; indicate; be a sign or symptom of
Flirt: Play at being interested or in love, not seriously
Flirtatious: Given to flirting
Hanging Out: An unplanned (or slightly planned, subject to change) get-together with a random bunch of friends, both male and female
Hint: To indirectly pass a message, particularly by means of gestures, glances, word choice, actions, or the pointed ignorance of the thing you’re trying to get across
Infatuation: A foolish passion, especially of love; obsessive, unreasonable/unreasoning love
Love: Affection for another person, especially of the opposite sex; any strong liking or affection; to have love/affection for
Occult: Beyond ordinary understanding; secret; known only to the initiated
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Love: What are your feelings about it?
Love – What are your feelings about it?
Mark as either TRUE or FALSE (based on your opinions of love and a relationship with someone you either like now or what you think would be an ideal relationship) on a separate piece of paper- I don’t know how to format this to add up answers- sorry
BTW, “they” refers to the person you like (or hope to like in the future, whatever the case may be)
1. Love at first sight is real
2. It takes a long time to really fall in love
3. If they are rude you have the right to be upset at them
4. Maturity is a good thing
5. It’s better/easier/you should be friends first and then fall in love – friendship comes before love
6. It’s a good idea to keep them guessing about your true feelings
7. You can still be friends after you break up
8. It’s better to graduate HS before falling in love
9. You should act like you’re depressed or needy sometimes to test how they will deal with it
10. If you’re really in love, it’s hard to sleep for thinking about them or you think about them constantly during the day
11. You can like someone even if they embarrass you
12. You should try to understand their side- thoughts, feelings, etc
13. Nothing matters as long as they care about you
14. It’s better if they don’t know everything about you
15. It’s best to love someone with a similar background (religion, culture, etc)
16. You don’t need to be physical to enjoy spending time with them
17. If they ignore you, you should be suspicious or offended
18. If they’re down, you should cheer them up even if you’re not feeling that great- it’s a bad idea to have pity parties with them or complain too much
19. You should always look your best when you’re with them
20. The best love comes after a long friendship
21. If you really like someone, it’s hard to concentrate on anything else
22. You can tell someone likes you by the way they look at you
23. If you broke up with someone, you would worry about their feelings
24. You trust them enough to not worry about where they are or what they’re doing
25. You need to be careful if you like more than one person
26. After a breakup you should wonder/worry/think about them constantly
27. You should be concerned about whether or not they’d be a good parent
28. The best reasons for marriage are companionship and children
29. You should be willing to sacrifice a little for them and they for you
30. You should never kiss on the first date
31. You enjoy flirting
32. They would be disappointed in your past actions
33. You have a good idea of what true love is
34. Adoption is a good idea if you can’t have kids
35. You should fall in love with a friend
36. You should never date someone you wouldn’t be willing to marry
37. You can’t help feeling jealous when you see them with a member of the opposite sex
38. If they want to do something you don’t (career, hobbies), you should get out of their way and let them do it if it’s not anything bad or inappropriate
39. You should wear the same type of clothes or accessories that they do (gender appropriate)
40. It’s a good idea to not go steady before a mission (guys) or college (girls)
41. You enjoy single dates as much as group dates
42. You should let them use your things if they need to
43. When you’re around them you feel swept off your feet
44. It can be fun to go out with someone who is just a friend
45. You should choose a spouse based on your career
46. The longest relationships are the most memorable
47. You should always watch how they behave around past bf/gfs or others they’ve dated
48. After dating long enough, they should be able to predict how you will react to things
49. They have the right to be able to mention other dates to you (especially if you ask them about it) without you being offended in any way
50. The person you like has the right to be able to talk to you about stuff and expect you to at least try to have an open mind
51. True love is truthful, even if sometimes the truth hurts or you don’t want to accept their criticism (since they like you, it is intended as helpful or explanatory- try to realize that)
52. Everyone is human and does stupid things, including you. You should be able to accept the fact that some subjects that must be talked about are hard to tactfully say, but if they are not good at saying things tactfully, you should try to understand what they were trying to say and realize that even though they may not be good at using tact, they still tried, and you should give them credit for trying. You should also try to realize that they did try to be tactful/truthful in the kindest way possible, even if they lose their patience because you misinterpreted what they meant and got offended.
Circle the numbers you marked as TRUE (some appear more than once)
R 1, 16, 19, 22, 33, 39, 41, 43, 46
F 2, 5, 20, 28, 30, 33, 34, 35, 46
P 6, 7, 13, 14, 24, 26, 32, 37, 44
S 4, 8, 15, 27, 30, 34, 36, 40, 45, 49, 50
A 11, 12, 18, 23, 29, 34, 38, 42, 46, 49, 50, 51, 52
G 3, 9, 10, 17, 21, 24, 25, 31, 44
E 3, 9, 17, 27, 37, 47, 48, if you marked these false: 50, 51, 52
Add up how many you have in each row. Based on this quiz, your idea of love is the one with the most answers marked TRUE.
Your idea of love is more:
Romantic Tingles, swept off feet
Friendship Calm, relaxed, fun
Possessive Clingy, jealous, insecure, overly careful/restrictive
Sensible Good for each other, well-matched
Altruistic Willing to do things for them, helpful
Game-playing In for the chase, not the capture, immature
Expectant You expect too much from them and have jealousy issues
Mark as either TRUE or FALSE (based on your opinions of love and a relationship with someone you either like now or what you think would be an ideal relationship) on a separate piece of paper- I don’t know how to format this to add up answers- sorry
BTW, “they” refers to the person you like (or hope to like in the future, whatever the case may be)
1. Love at first sight is real
2. It takes a long time to really fall in love
3. If they are rude you have the right to be upset at them
4. Maturity is a good thing
5. It’s better/easier/you should be friends first and then fall in love – friendship comes before love
6. It’s a good idea to keep them guessing about your true feelings
7. You can still be friends after you break up
8. It’s better to graduate HS before falling in love
9. You should act like you’re depressed or needy sometimes to test how they will deal with it
10. If you’re really in love, it’s hard to sleep for thinking about them or you think about them constantly during the day
11. You can like someone even if they embarrass you
12. You should try to understand their side- thoughts, feelings, etc
13. Nothing matters as long as they care about you
14. It’s better if they don’t know everything about you
15. It’s best to love someone with a similar background (religion, culture, etc)
16. You don’t need to be physical to enjoy spending time with them
17. If they ignore you, you should be suspicious or offended
18. If they’re down, you should cheer them up even if you’re not feeling that great- it’s a bad idea to have pity parties with them or complain too much
19. You should always look your best when you’re with them
20. The best love comes after a long friendship
21. If you really like someone, it’s hard to concentrate on anything else
22. You can tell someone likes you by the way they look at you
23. If you broke up with someone, you would worry about their feelings
24. You trust them enough to not worry about where they are or what they’re doing
25. You need to be careful if you like more than one person
26. After a breakup you should wonder/worry/think about them constantly
27. You should be concerned about whether or not they’d be a good parent
28. The best reasons for marriage are companionship and children
29. You should be willing to sacrifice a little for them and they for you
30. You should never kiss on the first date
31. You enjoy flirting
32. They would be disappointed in your past actions
33. You have a good idea of what true love is
34. Adoption is a good idea if you can’t have kids
35. You should fall in love with a friend
36. You should never date someone you wouldn’t be willing to marry
37. You can’t help feeling jealous when you see them with a member of the opposite sex
38. If they want to do something you don’t (career, hobbies), you should get out of their way and let them do it if it’s not anything bad or inappropriate
39. You should wear the same type of clothes or accessories that they do (gender appropriate)
40. It’s a good idea to not go steady before a mission (guys) or college (girls)
41. You enjoy single dates as much as group dates
42. You should let them use your things if they need to
43. When you’re around them you feel swept off your feet
44. It can be fun to go out with someone who is just a friend
45. You should choose a spouse based on your career
46. The longest relationships are the most memorable
47. You should always watch how they behave around past bf/gfs or others they’ve dated
48. After dating long enough, they should be able to predict how you will react to things
49. They have the right to be able to mention other dates to you (especially if you ask them about it) without you being offended in any way
50. The person you like has the right to be able to talk to you about stuff and expect you to at least try to have an open mind
51. True love is truthful, even if sometimes the truth hurts or you don’t want to accept their criticism (since they like you, it is intended as helpful or explanatory- try to realize that)
52. Everyone is human and does stupid things, including you. You should be able to accept the fact that some subjects that must be talked about are hard to tactfully say, but if they are not good at saying things tactfully, you should try to understand what they were trying to say and realize that even though they may not be good at using tact, they still tried, and you should give them credit for trying. You should also try to realize that they did try to be tactful/truthful in the kindest way possible, even if they lose their patience because you misinterpreted what they meant and got offended.
Circle the numbers you marked as TRUE (some appear more than once)
R 1, 16, 19, 22, 33, 39, 41, 43, 46
F 2, 5, 20, 28, 30, 33, 34, 35, 46
P 6, 7, 13, 14, 24, 26, 32, 37, 44
S 4, 8, 15, 27, 30, 34, 36, 40, 45, 49, 50
A 11, 12, 18, 23, 29, 34, 38, 42, 46, 49, 50, 51, 52
G 3, 9, 10, 17, 21, 24, 25, 31, 44
E 3, 9, 17, 27, 37, 47, 48, if you marked these false: 50, 51, 52
Add up how many you have in each row. Based on this quiz, your idea of love is the one with the most answers marked TRUE.
Your idea of love is more:
Romantic Tingles, swept off feet
Friendship Calm, relaxed, fun
Possessive Clingy, jealous, insecure, overly careful/restrictive
Sensible Good for each other, well-matched
Altruistic Willing to do things for them, helpful
Game-playing In for the chase, not the capture, immature
Expectant You expect too much from them and have jealousy issues
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Date Ideas
Pizza Party - Buy some pre-made pizza crusts, pizza or spaghetti sauce, and toppings (sausage, pepperoni, cheese, mushrooms, etc.) Pair people up and let each person create half of a pizza with whatever toppings they like. Cook the pizzas and then share them among the group. You can then all go to an ice cream place for dessert.
Pot luck dinner - The idea behind a pot luck dinner is that everyone brings something. As the host of a small party you would want to make the "main dish" and then have people bring other things like salads, side dishes, desserts, etc. You want to be sure to tell everyone exactly what to bring. If you don't then funny, strange things can happen.
Progressive dinner - If you and your friends live close together, then a progressive dinner can be lots of fun. The idea is to go from house to house for each phase of the dinner. At one house you have appetizers, at another the salad, at another the main dish, and so on. You might stop at four to six houses for the full meal. Organizing it can be half the fun.
Fondue party - Get a good fondue recipe and have a fondue dinner.
Sundae party - Buy several different flavors of ice cream, some toppings (hot fudge, sprinkles, etc.) and let people make their own sundaes. You might use this idea as the dessert for some of the other parties described here.
Cook out - Organize a cookout, either in your back yard or at a park. Cook hamburgers and hot dogs, serve chips and potato salad, and make ice cream for dessert if someone has a hand-cranked ice cream churn.
Video party - Pick up a video or two and invite some people over. Serve snacks and beverages. Or combine a pizza party or a sundae party with a video party.
Day trips - Pick a place an hour or two away and make a day of it. The place might be another city, a historic site, a mountain trail or a nice beach. Be sure you get home on time. My wife and I have made day trips to Washington DC, historic towns, beaches, etc. when we were dating. Planning the trip can be as much fun as the trip itself.
Shopping together - Let's say you are looking for a gift for someone like your mother or father. Take your date along with you to the mall and look for the gift together.
Picnic - Plan a picnic at a local park or natural area. Invite some friends along if you want a little less intimacy.
Ball game - Get a group together and go to a professional baseball/football/hockey/basketball game. Eat lunch or dinner at the game. This can be a little expensive if you aren't careful, so plan ahead. Or try going to a minor league game rather than a big league game. Not only is it cheaper, but you can get a lot closer to the players and the field.
Star gazing - Get a book on constellations (or invite a friend with a telescope) and watch the stars. This can be especially fun during a meteor shower.
Do something neither of you have done before - find an activity neither of you have tried but that you have both thought would be interesting. Figuring out the thing to do that you have in common can be as much fun as the thing itself.
Walk on the beach - If you live near the ocean or a large lake, taking a walk on the beach or the shoreline at sunset of in the moonlight can be very romantic. It can also be a lot more contemplative and peaceful.
Visit a park. You can swing together or ride down the slide. If you go in the evening it will be less crowded.
Cheer on a mutual friend - If the two of you have a mutual friend who is playing in a game or a concert at school, attend the performance together to cheer your friend on.
Go to church together - If you are both religious, take your date to your church and then go to your date's church the next week.
Go to a club event - If one of you is in a club, the other can tag along to see what it is like, make new friends and participate in club activities.
Try something spontaneous - Pick a nearby town neither of you have been to before and go explore it to see what you find. Or put a bunch of restaurant names in a hat and pick one. Spontaneous dates are probably not good for the first date, but can be fun if you have been going out for awhile.
Poetry reading, book reading - lots of time local authors will have poetry or book-reading sessions at local bookstores. If you like that sort of thing find one in your area.
Boat ride - Lots of municipal lakes have boat rentals (canoes, paddle boats, fishing boats, sail boats). Take a picnic lunch, rent a boat and see where you end up.
Take photographs together - Get a couple of disposable cameras and go some place to take pictures. Then once the pictures are developed compare how different they are!
Look up special events in the paper - The Saturday or Sunday paper in your area will have a list of special events for the weekend. You can find some really interesting things to try that way.
Have a dance - Usually you think of "going to the dance" at School, but what about having your own dance? Get a group of friends together, pick the music and dance.
Get a guide book for your city - Go to the library or a bookstore and get a tour book for your city. You will be amazed at all the attractions that are hidden nearby. A guide book may also contain self-guided walking tours that are fun. Or get a guide book for a nearby city and make a day trip there.
Berry picking - In the spring or summer go strawberry/blueberry/blackberry picking if available in your area. Apple picking in the fall is another option.
Flea market - Go explore a local flea market one Saturday.
Pot luck dinner - The idea behind a pot luck dinner is that everyone brings something. As the host of a small party you would want to make the "main dish" and then have people bring other things like salads, side dishes, desserts, etc. You want to be sure to tell everyone exactly what to bring. If you don't then funny, strange things can happen.
Progressive dinner - If you and your friends live close together, then a progressive dinner can be lots of fun. The idea is to go from house to house for each phase of the dinner. At one house you have appetizers, at another the salad, at another the main dish, and so on. You might stop at four to six houses for the full meal. Organizing it can be half the fun.
Fondue party - Get a good fondue recipe and have a fondue dinner.
Sundae party - Buy several different flavors of ice cream, some toppings (hot fudge, sprinkles, etc.) and let people make their own sundaes. You might use this idea as the dessert for some of the other parties described here.
Cook out - Organize a cookout, either in your back yard or at a park. Cook hamburgers and hot dogs, serve chips and potato salad, and make ice cream for dessert if someone has a hand-cranked ice cream churn.
Video party - Pick up a video or two and invite some people over. Serve snacks and beverages. Or combine a pizza party or a sundae party with a video party.
Day trips - Pick a place an hour or two away and make a day of it. The place might be another city, a historic site, a mountain trail or a nice beach. Be sure you get home on time. My wife and I have made day trips to Washington DC, historic towns, beaches, etc. when we were dating. Planning the trip can be as much fun as the trip itself.
Shopping together - Let's say you are looking for a gift for someone like your mother or father. Take your date along with you to the mall and look for the gift together.
Picnic - Plan a picnic at a local park or natural area. Invite some friends along if you want a little less intimacy.
Ball game - Get a group together and go to a professional baseball/football/hockey/basketball game. Eat lunch or dinner at the game. This can be a little expensive if you aren't careful, so plan ahead. Or try going to a minor league game rather than a big league game. Not only is it cheaper, but you can get a lot closer to the players and the field.
Star gazing - Get a book on constellations (or invite a friend with a telescope) and watch the stars. This can be especially fun during a meteor shower.
Do something neither of you have done before - find an activity neither of you have tried but that you have both thought would be interesting. Figuring out the thing to do that you have in common can be as much fun as the thing itself.
Walk on the beach - If you live near the ocean or a large lake, taking a walk on the beach or the shoreline at sunset of in the moonlight can be very romantic. It can also be a lot more contemplative and peaceful.
Visit a park. You can swing together or ride down the slide. If you go in the evening it will be less crowded.
Cheer on a mutual friend - If the two of you have a mutual friend who is playing in a game or a concert at school, attend the performance together to cheer your friend on.
Go to church together - If you are both religious, take your date to your church and then go to your date's church the next week.
Go to a club event - If one of you is in a club, the other can tag along to see what it is like, make new friends and participate in club activities.
Try something spontaneous - Pick a nearby town neither of you have been to before and go explore it to see what you find. Or put a bunch of restaurant names in a hat and pick one. Spontaneous dates are probably not good for the first date, but can be fun if you have been going out for awhile.
Poetry reading, book reading - lots of time local authors will have poetry or book-reading sessions at local bookstores. If you like that sort of thing find one in your area.
Boat ride - Lots of municipal lakes have boat rentals (canoes, paddle boats, fishing boats, sail boats). Take a picnic lunch, rent a boat and see where you end up.
Take photographs together - Get a couple of disposable cameras and go some place to take pictures. Then once the pictures are developed compare how different they are!
Look up special events in the paper - The Saturday or Sunday paper in your area will have a list of special events for the weekend. You can find some really interesting things to try that way.
Have a dance - Usually you think of "going to the dance" at School, but what about having your own dance? Get a group of friends together, pick the music and dance.
Get a guide book for your city - Go to the library or a bookstore and get a tour book for your city. You will be amazed at all the attractions that are hidden nearby. A guide book may also contain self-guided walking tours that are fun. Or get a guide book for a nearby city and make a day trip there.
Berry picking - In the spring or summer go strawberry/blueberry/blackberry picking if available in your area. Apple picking in the fall is another option.
Flea market - Go explore a local flea market one Saturday.
Australian
I found this somewhere - I don't remember where.
No Worries!
Think it might be tricky
understanding Australian? Here’s a handy guide to some words and phrases you
might hear teens and others use. But remember, it’s often just a word here and
there, not a constant stream of unfamiliar language.
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Australian
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American
|
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Good on ya!
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Well done, good for you!
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No worries, no problems
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That’s okay, You’re welcome, It’s
no big deal
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Tomato sauce
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Ketchup
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Sand shoes
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Sneakers
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Capsicum
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Green pepper
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Rock melon
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Cantaloupe
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Bush walkers
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People out hiking
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Lemonade
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Sprite, 7-Up
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Bush bashing
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Four-wheeling
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G’day
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Hello
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She’ll be right, mate
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Everything will work out fine
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Bin
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Trash can, garbage can
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Mossies (say "mozzies")
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Mosquitoes
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Woop woop
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Out in the sticks, in the
boondocks
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Sunbaking
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Sunbathing
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Panel beaters
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Auto body shop
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Chook
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Chicken
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Bush tucker
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Edible wild plants and insects
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Aussie (say "Ozzie")
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An Australian
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Sloppy Joe
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Sweatshirt
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Dummy
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Baby’s pacifier
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Spit the Dummy
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Gets upset
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Chuck a wobbly
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Throw a tantrum
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Stiff bikkies
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Tough cookies (tough luck)
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Barrack
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To cheer for a team
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Stubbies
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Shorts (especially football
shorts)
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Footy
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Aussie-rules football, rugby
union, rugby league, or soccer
|
Saturday, August 11, 2007
Medication reference sheet
This was useful to me when I worked as a CNA (Certified Nurse Assistant). The assisted living facility I worked for allowed its CNAs to pass meds under their nurse's license, including narcotics, which are kept double-locked.
Medication Names
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Generic Name
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Common Names
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Brand Names
|
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Phenytoin sodium
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Dilantin
|
|
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Lansoprazole
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Prevacid
|
|
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Verapamil
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Calan, Verelan
|
|
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Levothyroxine
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Synthroid, Levothroid, Levoxyl
|
|
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Prednisone
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Deltasone
|
|
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Nortryptylene
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Pamelor
|
|
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Pantoprazole sodium
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Protonix
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|
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Levalbuterol hydrochloride
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Xopenex
|
|
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Citalopram
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Celexa
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|
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Carvedilol
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Coreg
|
|
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Insulin
|
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Humalog, Humalin, Iletin, Novolin, Velosulin BR
|
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Venlafaxine hydrochloride
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Effexor
|
|
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Oxycodone
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OxyContin
|
|
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Mirtazapine
|
Remeron
|
|
|
Metformin
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Glucophage
|
|
|
Glipizide
|
Glucotrol
|
|
|
Glimepiride
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Amaryl
|
|
|
Celecoxib
|
Celebrex
|
|
|
Alendronate sodium
|
Fosamax
|
|
|
Alprazolam
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Xanax
|
|
|
Risedronate
|
Actonel
|
|
|
Loperamide
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Imodium
|
|
|
Antacids
|
|
Gaviscon, Maalox, Mylanta, Rolaids, Tums
|
|
Allopurinol
|
Zyloprim
|
|
|
Lorazepam
|
Ativan
|
|
|
Zolpidem tartrate
|
Ambien
|
|
|
Nitroglycerin
|
Nitro-Bid, Nitro-Dur, Nitrolingual spray, Nitrostat
tablets, Transderm Nitro
|
|
|
Latanoprost
|
Xalatan
|
|
|
Nabumetone
|
Relafen
|
|
|
Trazodone
|
Desyrel
|
|
|
Pravastatine
|
Pravachol
|
|
|
Glyburide
|
Micronase
|
|
|
Donepezil hydrochloride
|
Aricept
|
|
|
Amlodipine
|
Norvasc
|
|
|
Pioglitazone hydrochloride
|
Actos
|
|
|
Aspirin
|
|
Empirin, Ecotrin, Genuine Bayer, Halfprin
|
|
Acetaminophen
|
Tylenol
|
|
|
Fexofenadine hydrochloride
|
Allegra
|
|
|
Acyclovir
|
Zovirax
|
|
|
Azelastine hydrochloride
|
Astelin
|
|
|
Morphine
|
MS Contin, Roxanol
|
|
|
Omeprazole
|
Prilosec
|
|
|
Docusate
|
Colace
|
|
|
Famotidine
|
Pepcid
|
|
|
Spironolactone
|
Aldactone
|
|
|
Tamsulosin hydrochloride
|
Flomax
|
|
|
Percocet
|
|
Endocet, Roxicet, Tylox
|
|
Digoxin
|
Lanoxin, Digitek
|
|
|
Haloperidol
|
Haldol
|
|
|
Nitrofurantoin
|
Macrodantin
|
|
|
Tolterodine tartrate
|
Detrol (LA)
|
|
|
Prochlorperazine
|
Compazine
|
|
|
Clonazepam
|
Klonopin
|
|
|
Fluoxetine
|
Prozac
|
|
|
Bumetanide
|
Bumex
|
|
|
Lisinopril
|
Zestril
|
|
|
Warfarin sodium
|
Coumadin
|
|
|
Potassium chloride
|
Micro-K
|
|
|
Metoprolol
|
Lopressor, Toprol-XL
|
|
|
Tramadol
|
Ultram
|
|
|
Polyethylene glycol
|
Miralax, Glycolax
|
|
|
Furosemide
|
Lasix
|
|
|
Hydrocodone with Acetaminophen
|
Lortab, Vicodin
|
|
|
Olanzapine
|
Zyprexa
|
|
|
Losartan potassium
|
Cozaar
|
|
|
Diltiazem
|
Cardizem
|
|
|
Paroxetine
|
Paxil
|
|
|
Mycolog
|
|
Myco-Triacet II, Mytrex
|
|
Ranitidine
|
Zantac
|
|
|
Quetiapine fumarate
|
Seroquel
|
|
|
Loperamide
|
Imodium
|
|
|
Escitalopram oxalate
|
Lexapro
|
|
|
Sertraline
|
Zoloft
|
|
|
Benazepril
|
Lotensin
|
|
|
Simvastatin
|
Zocor
|
|
|
Ciprofloxacin hydrochloride
|
Cipro
|
|
|
Levetiracetam
|
Keppra
|
|
|
Oxybutynin
|
Ditropan
|
|
Sodium
Vitamin C
Cranberry
Iron (Ferrous Sulfate)
Vitamin D
Potassium
Calcium
Milk of Magnesia
Not in PDR Med Book
Compro
Ocuvite
Senokot (Senna)
Bisacodyl (Pulcolax)
Estrace
Pangestyme
Sulfatrim
Cymbalta
Oxytrol
Tiotroprium (Spriva)
Namenda
Mucinex
Vesicare
Peso
Metoprolol
Boniva
Cymbalta
Cyanocobalmin
Ferrous Gloconate
Qualaquin
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